Why he hesitates

And he has said he likes me.. Guys over-analyze things without even knowing they are. Either that or they just want sex and are ashamed to admit it. For any of us to speculate on the reason he is wary is purely that, speculation and is of no real benefit. He is just a person and there could be a million reasons he is not interested in labelling what you two share. Would a label allow you to open up further to him? When that happens time and time again it gets stuck in my head. Another reason I want a label is that I think I could just relax around him more.

I feel like it would make me more myself around him. Well maybe I already have just by asking. I know that guys just want sex, but there are guys out there that consider more than just sex. In fact, as soon as you mentioned that you wanted to be his girlfriend he would probably instantly agree that he wants the same thing. C He only wants to date in his life at the moment and that means no commitments or relationships. E He recently got out of a bad relationship or still has some hangups about his ex and starting a NEW relationship would bring up bad memories or remind him why he ended his last relationship.

If that vision includes anything about marriage or starting a family he might be worth pursuing. Simple as that.. People have some inherent lucidity about what they want. A very confusing process if there is much dissonance in their intentions. He has dual intentions, as most guys do. Help us delete comments that do not follow these guidelines by marking them offensive.

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I understand that sometimes his hesitation can cause you to be hesitant to move on, in hopes that he will come around one day. But the chances are slim to none. And this has to be ok with you. I know it is hard to not fall in love with the potential that you see for a relationship with him, but the reality is, you probably should just move on to someone who is ready for what you want. If you are interested in learning how to get out of your own way and break your negative self-beliefs, consider taking one of our upcoming courses on reprogramming your relationship pattern.

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